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Across 7. (60) Key researcher in the difference between western and non-western relationships - focused on the differences between collectivist and individualist cultures 9. (54) The priority for men when choosing a female partner 11. (57) When a female sleeps with another man who is not her partner 14. (48) The idea that you form relationships with those who can meet your specific requirements 16. (52) When you brood on the problems within your relationship. Literally means 'within your mind' 18. (49) Suggested that we don't so much find similar people attractive, but rather that we find dissimilar people UNattractive 19. (49) Found that we gain satisfaction not just from receiving rewards, but also from giving them - so we are attracted to people to whom we can offer something 21. (60) The sort of relationship more common in the West - when people get to choose their partners

Down 1. (58) The idea that our first relationship will be similar to those found later in life 2. (56) When a man is unsure as to whether or not he is the father of his child 3. (59) Type of study carried out by Simpson, who found a strong correlation between first attachment type and later romantic relationships 4. (58) Believed our early relationships formed three integrated systems: attachment, caregiving and sexuality. Also worked with Hazan on the 'Love Quiz', to decide if there was a link between first attachments and later relationships 5. (58) Relationships at this time of life are said to help achieve the goal of separation from parents 6. (58) Developed the internal working model and was a key theorist in the field of childhood attachments 8. (53) The type of satisfaction generally lacking when a woman decides to engage in an extramarital affair 10. (50) Your basic expectations from a relationship - based on previous relationships and those of your peers 12. (50) When you consider the economics of your relationship, you form your perceived _ _ _ _ _ of inputs and outputs 13. (60) The name given to cultures in which the group is prioritised over the individual 15. (48) The idea that you form close bonds with those who share personality traits and attitudes 17. (52) The stage of relationship breakdown where you finally confront your partner and discuss your problems 20. (57) When women have extramarital affairs with stronger, more attractive men than their husbands, this is the name given to the man. Also used for the more accomplished horses whose services are sold at a high price